How to use U.S. gifting laws to quietly move assets down the line.
Most people think “estate planning” happens at the reading of a will.
In reality, a lot of the smartest wealth transfer happens years before that — through quiet, structured gifting while you’re very much alive, in control, and watching your family benefit.
This isn’t about loopholes. It’s about understanding how U.S. tax law already lets you:
Move wealth out of your taxable estate
Fund kids and grandkids now
Keep the IRS out of the middle as much as possible
At Alejos Capital Group, we think of this as structured wealth transfer: turning confusing tax rules into a clear plan for your family.
The Gifting Rules in Plain English (2025)
Let’s strip the jargon out.
1. The annual gift tax exclusion
In 2025, you can give up to $19,000 per person, per year without owing gift tax or using any of your lifetime exemption.
You can do this for as many people as you want — kids, grandkids, parents, friends.
If you’re married, you and your spouse can “split” gifts and effectively give $38,000 per recipient in 2025.
These gifts are usually not taxable to the recipient and don’t require them to report anything.
2. The lifetime gift & estate tax exemption
Separate from the annual exclusion, there’s a big “lifetime bucket”:
In 2025, you can transfer up to about $13.99 million per person over your lifetime and at death, combined, before federal estate or gift tax kicks in.
That’s roughly $27.98 million for a married couple.
Every time you give more than $19,000 per person in a year, the extra amount simply chips away at that $13.99M lifetime bucket. You usually file Form 709 to report it, but most people still pay no actual tax until the bucket is used up.
And looking ahead, that exemption is set to increase to $15 million per individual in 2026, unless the law changes again.
3. Special “tax-free boost” gifts
Certain payments are completely outside the gift tax system if done correctly:
Tuition paid directly to a school
Medical bills paid directly to a provider
These don’t count against your $19,000 annual exclusion or your lifetime exemption at all.
Done right, that’s an enormous lever for grandparents and parents who want to help with education or health costs andreduce their taxable estate.
Gifting as “Off-Balance Sheet” Family Growth
Here’s the mental model we like:
Your personal balance sheet = assets in your name, potentially exposed to estate tax later.
Your family’s balance sheet = assets held by your kids, grandkids, and trusts for their benefit.
Structured gifting is how you quietly move assets off your personal balance sheet and onto the next generation’s balance sheet, on purpose and on schedule.
You’re not just writing random checks. You’re:
Picking which assets to move (often higher-growth or discountable ones)
Choosing who gets them (individuals vs. trusts)
Deciding when and how often (annual exclusion, larger lifetime gifts, or both)
A Simple Example: The $19,000 Rhythm
Imagine you’re a married couple with:
2 adult children
2 grandchildren
In 2025:
You can each give $19,000 to each person.
Together, that’s $38,000 per person.
So in one year, you could move:
4 recipients × $38,000 = $152,000 out of your estate
Do that for 10 years (ignoring growth, just for simplicity), and you’ve moved $1.52 million to your family without touching your lifetime exemption and without owing federal gift tax.
Meanwhile, if that $1.52M is invested and grows on their balance sheets — not yours — you’ve shifted not just assets, but all future growth and potential estate tax on that growth, away from your estate.
That’s structured wealth transfer.
Going Beyond the Basics: Structured Gifts
For families who want to be more intentional, gifting can plug into a bigger strategy:
1. Funding long-term vehicles
Use your annual exclusion or lifetime exemption to fund:
Investment accounts for kids (UTMA/UGMA, where appropriate)
529 college savings plans
Irrevocable trusts designed to hold growth assets for future generations
These vehicles can:
Keep assets out of your taxable estate
Let growth compound for decades
Control how and when beneficiaries can access the money
2. Using your lifetime exemption strategically
Sometimes it makes sense to make a larger gift now, especially if:
Your net worth is in the high 7+ figures
You expect significant future growth (business owner, concentrated stock, real estate, etc.)
You can use part of your $13.99M lifetime exemption to move a big asset into a trust or to heirs now. If that asset doubles or triples later, that growth happens outside your estate.
3. Direct-pay education and medical strategies
If your kids or grandkids have:
Private school or college tuition
Significant medical expenses
You can pay those directly to the school or provider, with no gift tax consequences and no hit to your exclusions.
That’s like getting extra “free” gifting capacity on top of your other limits.
Who Should Care About This?
You don’t need $50 million to make gifting worth it.
Structured wealth transfer is especially important if:
Your net worth is climbing into the high 7 or 8 figures (or higher)
You want kids or grandkids to benefit now, not just “someday”
You’re worried about future tax law changes reducing exemptions
You’d rather see dollars go to family and causes, not just the IRS
Even if you’re well below the estate tax line, gifting can:
Help children avoid debt
Seed their investing early
Create a culture of responsible wealth, not surprise inheritance
How Alejos Capital Group Helps with Structured Gifting
We’re not your attorney or CPA — and we’ll always tell you to keep them in the loop — but this is exactly the kind of planning we live in.
For our clients, we help:
Map the family balance sheet
Who exists now? Who’s likely to exist later? What vehicles already exist (accounts, trusts, businesses)?Design a gifting rhythm
Annual exclusion gifts, occasional larger lifetime gifts, direct tuition/medical support — all built into your cash flow.Coordinate the investment side
We help decide what to gift:Cash vs. appreciated stock
Growth assets vs. income assets
When to use vehicles like covered calls, structured notes, or lending strategies inside gifted structures, where appropriate
Stress-test the plan
What happens if laws change? Markets drop? Your liquidity needs shift? We want your gifting plan to be generousbut also durable.
The goal is simple:
Move wealth down the line intelligently, keep you secure, and avoid surprises from the IRS.
Important Note (Because We Take This Seriously)
This piece is for education, not individual tax or legal advice. Gifting rules interact with:
Your state’s laws
Existing trusts and agreements
Business structures
Future law changes
Before making large gifts or setting up trusts, always coordinate with a qualified estate planning attorney and tax professional.
If you’d like Alejos Capital Group to review your current gifting and wealth transfer plan, we can help you see:
How much you could be gifting under current law
Where your assets sit today (and where they should sit)
How to align your generosity with a clear, tax-aware strategy
Smart Money for Real People isn’t just about investments — it’s about how your money moves through your family for decades.